Loving yourself is the only solution to addictive behavior and mental health issues. To change and transform the current trajectory of a person's life, to end an individual's addiction and dependency upon drugs and alcohol forever, and to find an actual resolution to mental health problems will require that the individual learn how to authentically respect, approve, accept, acknowledge and eventually come to love himself just as he is now, in the present moment.
Learning what loving himself is all about and bringing the knowledge of self-love into his life will give him true wisdom and genuine happiness. Experiencing authentic self-love is simple but requires commitment and dedication to transformation. The individual will need help from others and, as a result, must be open and willing to accept and follow all of the suggestions from others who know about and live the principles of transformation.
To transform himself, the individual will need to learn the knowledge necessary to transform and practice it daily to experience and bring the wisdom of self-love into his life. An individual can transform only if he changes his negative thinking about himself, especially his thinking about his perceived value and worth as a human being, into that which is authentically positive. Any negative ideas, thoughts, beliefs, or considerations about oneself must be given up absolutely and replaced with positive ones.
When a person comes to think and believe positively about himself, he will come to think and believe that he is perfect, whole, and complete, that he genuinely matters, that he is good enough, that he is enough, just as he is in the present moment and will cease all self-harm. When a person comes to think positively about himself, he will come to love himself authentically, he will no longer have a desire or need to use drugs or alcohol or feel depressed, anxious, and worthless, and he will be accepting and approving with who he is in the present moment, in the Now. As stated above, self-approval and self-acceptance are the keys to genuine self-love.
Dr. Harry Henshaw
