We create and are responsible for all of our experiences. When our expectations are not fulfilled as a result of our creations, we have a tendency to become frustrated and blame others for the consequences of what we have created. Our blaming and attempting to relinquish our responsibility can also result our creating resentments. However, our blaming and even the resentments that may get created by us are never justified. There is no one to really blame for our experiences. We are always responsible for what we experience because we created it by our thinking, by our thoughts and beliefs, especially the thoughts and beliefs that we have about ourselves, about our value and worth as a human being.
Dr. Harry Henshaw